is important that men and women are clear about their "dignity as individuals" to act accordingly, without being carried by fashionable ideologies, quite contrary to the true meaning of human life and what really has to happiness.
Today, for many people, sex has lost the spontaneity of something that should grow out of "Love" between husband and wife ... ... largely due to an excessive preoccupation with "technical" sexual, leaving side aspects as warmth, tenderness, sensitivity, communication, respect, importance, ..., being the opposite of what supposedly is claimed, the satisfaction in this matter.
For a significant group of society today, "sex" is most important in relationships ... all of a millionaire and industry thought revolves around him (the sex), and seeks to model it according to their interests and power consumptive ... The men and women, adolescents and even the child, try to be aware of all about, and practice it if possible ..., many couples live together before marriage, to see if they do well in bed, so that, allegedly, after it marriage ... However, reality is still another, adolescents and children are formed in a number of distortions about the affection that makes it difficult, later, to establish a healthy and stable emotional relationship ... most of those couples who have "proved" their sexual prowess or lived with a partner, get divorced (even if they marry) ... in many cases on bad terms ... So it seems that the formula for happiness is another, and that Sex is just one aspect of the complex world of human relationships, where the transcendent and spiritual comes to be the real axis of everything ...
In fact, sex between a man and a woman joined in marriage must based on the love ..!, discovering, of course, the real meaning of this term, moreover, quite distorted in these times ...
Condition machine, which currently manages the human science, makes one think that the body should function in a certain way (the pseudo scientists believe to be), and as there really is no such, there are so many dissatisfaction, dysfunction , frustrations ...
Proliferation
technical information on sex, with the ideology that accompanies the whole culture of the alleged "sexual liberation": books, articles in magazines and newspapers, pseudo-scientific opinions on TV, radio, etc., of of such gurus of sexology ... are everywhere ... He sold to people who implement this information is "Progress", when in fact, represents a serious setback in the "development" human.
Many couples have been hurt by trying to follow what is said there ... drifting, unconsciously or not, in a selfish approach, focusing on self-satisfaction from the other to be an accessory.
Excessive concern about the "mechanics" sexual pleasure-seeking self, often seen in the other's response (a), only a reference to the particular performance to exalt the ego or not ... When it is appropriate to feel joy at the " welfare "of the beloved, which has been the best whether ...
always "love" and mutual generosity, achieving, by its unexpected ways, superlatively results than "technicians."
Concern about sexual techniques, is based on the concept that the human being is only one animal developed, and therefore, most important of sexual intercourse is the amount of physical pleasure that they can produce . In this absurd idea from the obsessive anxiety search results more and more artificial, which always lead to sexual boredom, to the subsequent infidelity or promiscuity, or more frequent deviations.
Husbands, in fact, be worry-free love without the anxiety of physical pleasure model imposed from outside, could tarnish their spontaneity, joy, joy to deliver to one another.
must reiterate that there is no better technique for the couple's sexual adjustment, that the true mutual love, consideration, the desire to make happy each other.
course there are basic theoretical knowledge, on the subject, everyone should have, selecting either the sources of which are taken ... And if there is any greater physical or psychological problem, a good specialist "Catholic" can help ... But do not forget, for example, that the alleged experience of more seasoned Casanova, when he falls truly and this for the first time with his wife, no use for it, since it is always a start between two people who are unique and unrepeatable, and that only time will harmonize with gradually.
repeats in sex what happens in many other aspects of life, "which gives much more happiness to give than to receive." Here is this particular significance because, essentially, the conjugal act is a gift, a donated a generous commitment.
sentimental union should precede the union of bodies, the latter would thus become an expression of "love" already exists in the hearts ... This "love" is manifested in practice over the most diverse situations of life.
is not the same love, desire, love is the soul and the body's desire, love marriage must be comprehensive: the soul and body.
not forget, then, that sexual union to be truly consistent with the dignity of the human person, his nature, can not be reduced to the voluptuous sensation seeking, but must express, above all, a complete fusion between man and woman, simultaneously penetrating powers of body and spirit. Remember
it to be Christian involves a lifestyle consistent with the condition as children of God ... So, dear newlyweds, love truly in Christ, have confidence in their "grace", and the rest you will come to you ...
J. Loring / AP. RN
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